TURNING
THE TABLES ON HOPE
The modern
usage of the word has led the American Heritage Dictionary to change its
definition:
"A wish
or desire accompanied by confident expectation of its fulfilment".
The
definition for its 5th edition (2011) states:
"The
longing or desire for something accompanied by belief in the possibility
of its occurrence"
(Peter Chipman, Editor).
It would
seem we have lost confidence! How sad..................
Hope theory,
which falls under the philosophy of Positive Psychology, is goal-oriented.
Willpower and way power, energy and excitement of goals are the modern dialogue
of this philosophy.
An example
of ‘Hope Theory” as therapy:
A woman wears an electronic bracelet that vibrates
every 20 minutes to remind her to get up and stretch or walk down the
hall......a new goal towards a hope of becoming more active, of not
sitting constantly at her computer. I don't know about you but I know what I
would do with that vibrating bracelet! :)
Does this
not remind you of Pavlov's dog?
Anyone out
there who has tried to diet?....we know how much willpower it takes! Many of us
are pretty useless in this area therefore if I have to depend on such a
platform to realise hope, then I know I am in deep trouble. Surely, hope has greater significance.....this seems so watered down, even selfish.
What
of.........Hope Springs Eternal! -Alexander Pope, an Essay on Man, Epistle I,
1733. We have songs, ringtones, a movie, a TV series and numerous blogs named
from this quotation, all crying out and suggesting that there is a thirst for
renewed hope.
Hope does
not prove itself in works, hope springs from our inner world; it is
instilled by something bigger than us.
As Adele
sings: “I can't keep up with your turning tables, under your thumb, I can't
breathe.”
Let’s
turn back the tables on hope. Let’s meditate on its true meaning..........
Breathe
in....
breathe out......truly hope again.
Xxxxxxxxx
Margs
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